Courtship (Mere yaar ki Shadi hai…)
My this time stay in NY had a very different experience…. Which I would say I would remember for quite a while… and for some different reason… : )
In the last 7+ months since i am in US… I have shared apartment with two guys…. And in both the case they were engaged and were on their way to get married….
During this time I did realize… life really do get changed, when you are in the stage.. it can be also be called as a trans state… or as said in MATRIX 2 (wait at the train station.. for where you cannot go neither ahead nor backward but do just have to wait till the time do come)
In both the case my roomies had their fiancee located in India.. so naturally you can see the day or night never used to end… either its day in India or day in US or its night in India or night in US (its like the constant 24 hr cycle when day never used to end or the night never used to end)
I was amazed when they used to be up whole night talking, talking and talking and during the daytime in office… :-)
I always felt, the apartment where I stayed was not occupied by 2 but rather by 3 people (the 3 person was always superficial as the presence was not felt by ME, but both of them you to feel) humans are really crazy i guess.... :-)
But starting this week, my current partner is on his way to get married….
The funniest part of all this is that I happen to know both the guys from past some time… before this transformation(living in the wonderland.. hope that wonderland do survive reality :-o)…. But where different kind of person… and when this phase (courtship period) of their life started I saw common changes taking place in both of them… the way they talk, the way they run away from friends.... I guess my perception did also changed by observing them(agaionst all the person who is about to get married)… and a question used to hunt me… do all guys (as i never happened to share apartment with a girl who was to get married hahaha) end up on the same path and the same way…
Hope reading this you guys do not run away... this is just a passing thought... it will fade away.. and i should be back normal :-0
Cheers friends, for my roomie(Manish) getting married (fortunate or unfortunately both my roomies had the same first name)
/Ani
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